A calmer next step
Mediation helps participants explain disagreements and consider boundaries or a resolution. Participation is voluntary. Decline, leave message bodies hidden or report concerns. There are no mediation fees or nonparticipation penalties.
Assistance and privacy
Deterministic guidance works without AI. Generated mediation and planning are future experimental features, disabled by default. If explicitly enabled and disclosed, the configured AI service may process mediation statements to suggest wording. Suggestions may be wrong and are not professional arbitration, therapy, legal advice or emergency assistance. Human reviewers handle contested safety/account decisions.
Message choices
Before any real message reaches a recipient, automatic and manually proposed labels must pass static word/phrase checks and a verified labeling decision. When enabled, a small catalog of exact phrases independently compared with an xAI Grok model can use its validated local labels. All other text requires a successful xAI Grok model classification. Recipient previews, tags and message content stay withheld while required checks are pending, unavailable or unsuccessful. This is a limited exact-phrase catalog, not a claim that a general local classifier has been trained or proven accurate. After successful checks, recipients first see tags and their source; the body stays hidden on the server until that individual message is revealed, including replies in existing conversations. Manual proposals can add topics but cannot remove required detected topics or lower required intimacy labels. Neither classification pass guarantees accurate or complete labels. Your topic preferences filter delivered tag previews; All tags shows other delivered messages. Members cannot block messages from other members. Leave a body hidden, hide a request or report it. Reading one message is not consent to future content, off-platform contact or any activity.
Human review
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